Our methodology
We're a small team that plans family trips for a living. This page documents exactly how we evaluate destinations, score them, fact-check our data, and stay independent from affiliate revenue.
TotScore — our 0–100 family-fit score
Every destination gets a TotScore that combines five dimensions weighted by what actually matters with kids in tow:
Safety 25%
Petty crime, pediatric care availability, water quality, traffic risk.
Terrain 25%
Stroller-friendliness, calm beaches vs. waves, shade, sidewalk continuity.
Transit ease 20%
Door-to-door friction from your origin: flight time, layovers, transfer logistics.
Kid food 15%
Familiar staples on menus, high-chair availability, kid-aimed menu options.
Kid rating 15%
Editorial composite of activity quality, age-appropriateness, and amenity depth.
Transit ease is recomputed per origin — your TotScore for Tokyo from LAX (~11h) is different from your TotScore from Hawaii (~7h). The other four dimensions are intrinsic to the destination.
Tier labels: 85+ exceptional for families · 72–84 solid pick · 58–71 workable with prep · under 58 best for older kids only.
Trip Finder fit score
The Trip Finder quiz ranks destinations against your specific inputs (ages, budget, flight tolerance, vibe, month). It's a separate composite from TotScore — it weighs:
- Vibe match (60 points): Each matching trip-style tag you picked vs. the destination's tags.
- Budget match (25): Full credit if the hotel range matches; partial if one tier off; penalty if two tiers off.
- Flight tolerance (20): Full credit within tolerance; partial if one tier over; penalty if more.
- Kid-friendly rating (10): Direct addition of the destination's 1–10 score.
- Season match (8): Bonus if your travel month is in the destination's best season.
- Age warnings: Soft flags (long flights with babies, all-cultural with toddlers, etc.) — these are shown on the result card but don't subtract from the fit score.
Where our data comes from
- Official tourism boards & destination marketing orgs — primary cost, activity, and seasonality data.
- Government travel advisories — US State Department, UK FCDO, Canada Travel.gc.ca for safety baselines.
- NOAA & national meteorological services — historical weather verdicts (rainy days, temps, hurricane windows).
- IATA + Google Flights — flight time + price band averaging across major US origins.
- Booking.com, Expedia, hotel direct sites — price ranges and availability cross-checked across sources.
- Parent communities — TripAdvisor family forums, Reddit (r/TravelWithKids, r/Disneyland, r/Cancun), Facebook groups — for friction signals secondary sources don't surface.
- Pediatric travel medicine sources — CDC Travel Health, WHO yellow fever maps, vaccination requirement guidance.
We never cite secondary travel blogs as primary sources. If we recommend a hotel or activity, we've cross-checked it against at least two independent sources.
Affiliate independence — the rule
We earn a small commission when readers book hotels through Booking.com, activities through Viator, or buy travel gear through Amazon. Affiliate revenue never influences our rankings. The rule is simple:
- The TotScore formula is published. It's deterministic. We can't tweak the score for a brand we partner with.
- We don't accept sponsored content. No paid placements, no "promoted" picks, no advertorial.
- If a destination or hotel doesn't have an affiliate program, we still recommend it when it's the right pick.
- We never name a hotel or product in a recommendation list that we wouldn't book ourselves.
Affiliate disclosures appear on every page with affiliate links. Read our full affiliate disclosure.
What we don't do
- ❌ Sponsored content. Ever.
- ❌ "We tested this product" claims. We're a research-first site. We don't claim hands-on testing we haven't done. We synthesize evidence from credible sources and our own family travel experience.
- ❌ Live price quotes. Flight + hotel prices are ranges based on recent data. Always check live rates before booking.
- ❌ Personal data collection. We don't ask for your email or build a profile on you. Trip Finder runs entirely in your browser.
How often we update
- Destination guides: reviewed quarterly; flagged for update if a major hotel closes, advisory changes, or weather data shifts.
- Itineraries: price ranges refreshed twice a year (March + September). Activity URLs verified continuously via automated link checks.
- Travel gear products: Amazon ratings + reviews refreshed monthly through our data pipeline.
- Flight times: averaged from 90-day rolling data; the absolute number isn't perfect, but the comparative tier (short/medium/long) holds.
Found something wrong?
We get things wrong sometimes. If a hotel closed, an activity moved, or a price band has drifted, tell us — we update fast and credit the spotter when we can.
Email us via the link on our about page.